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When I hit my recent Fb milestone, I ran as many of the analytics apps as I could find, hoping to gain some profound a-has. Once a quant geek, always a quant geek.
Instead of some glorious insight into techno-utopia, I have stared at one big o-shit for the last week or so:
I've tried framing this in the context of online or Fb demographics, tried looking at other profiles of people I admire, even tried a last-ditch "pack the court" campaign to "even things out". The reality is that calling this "A fine balance of the sexes" is a bit like calling my home state a place where human life is valued.
The truth is that online - just as off-line - I am a 43 year-old privileged sexist racist homophobic Anglo married man. It is not enough to be a sensitive new age guy, not enough to invite "them" to your table, not enough to compensate or even over-compensate. I perpetuate a system that marginalizes people not like me. By my actions, I place myself inside, with power - and those not like me outside, without power. Period. Hard stop.
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I have had only 1 significant experience in being the outsider, being on the other side of privilege. I sucked at this - I attacked, I pulled rank, I beat up others and myself - I cried out over & over again "Don't you know who I am ?" It was painful being the other, the outsider - and the reality was, that in this case, I was living in tension, not even anything approaching balance (whatever that it is).
For the past day, I've been noodling with a quote from whiskey river:
"One of the most curious characteristics of human beings - particularly westerners - is that pain and inconvenience stimulate their vitality far more than pleasure. In a very precise sense of the word, human beings are spoilt. A spoilt child is one who has come to expect certain privileges and accepts them as rights. He is not grateful for these privileges; in fact, they bore him. The only time he feels strongly about them is when they are curtailed; then he sulks. All human beings take their happiness for granted, and only question life when they are in pain."
- Colin Wilson Beyond the Outsider
Even though the context is Fb, something seen as far away from the "real world", I seek environments that perpetuate me and those like me having privilege, forcing all others to the outside. I certainly take this for granted - I am without a doubt spoilt.
From Losttrekker
I sense that what is in this for me starts with:
Any other ideas would be greatly welcomed.
From pierrre1
Normality is such an illusion and those most protective it are invariably those most scared of themselves.
poster for Earth Day 1970 Walt Kelly
The Warfare State is Part of Us
If business meetings were like Internet comments
Dreaming Between Frames Wim Wenders
Modern Life
The Manager's Cheat Sheet: 101 Common-Sense Rules for Leaders - Inside CRM
Hipster Olympics
DO NOT ASK OR DO NOT ANSWER?
How to answer the door to your daughters date
Death anxiety empirically tied to nationalism
earth album
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